So while it is the duty of loving to try and communicate in a way that your beloved(s) will understand, it is also the responsibility of being beloved (and loving in return) to listen for the many ways and many voices in which love expresses itself. More than that, it is one of the ultimate expressions of love to learn to accept those ways and voices as they are, and not as you would have them be.
Listening for Love
By Judith Cullen (c) 2014
Love doesn’t sound like
What you expected it to
It sneaks up on you
And takes various surprising forms
You want it say,
“Let me move these things out of your way.”
But it ends up saying,
“I made tuna salad.
Want some for your lunch?”
You want it to say,
“You look tired, let me do the dishes”
But it ends up saying,
“There was a sale on strawberries. I bought five flats!”
You have to listen hard
And with your whole heart
The voice of love is cunning
It sneaks up where you aren’t listening
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